What broke me, also blessed me.


Happy FriYAYYYYY, Reader!

May is Mental Health Awareness Month.

Last week the family and I headed down to Baltimore for my 20th high school reunion. Crazy – I know! 🙈


With this, and Mother’s Day just around the corner, I’ve been reflecting a lot on the journey I've been on the past 20 years of becoming a woman, and what emotional wellness looks like — especially for us.

The working moms. The caregivers. The dreamers. The women holding it all together… even when we’re crumbling inside.

That reflection led me to revisit something deeply personal that I shared a couple weeks ago.

Back in March I shared a 3-part video testimony about how transitioning into motherhood broke me; but how in a lot of ways it also healed me. A HUGE part of this came as a result of rediscovering my faith, and how doing so introduced me to (as Gen Z calls it)  – the “soft life.” 😏

Not the IG aesthetic.
Not luxury or passive living.
But a life anchored in rest, surrender, and soul-level freedom.

For so long, I believed success required striving.

But in three pivotal life seasons, God gently unraveled that belief — and taught me what JOY in obedience really feels like.

Each season broke something in me.

But it also opened the door to something softer, deeper… and far more fulfilling.

Here’s why I’m sharing these reflections now:

Mental health isn’t just about managing stress.
It’s about learning how to live without pretending you’re not drowning.
It’s about letting go of what culture says you should be…
So you can hear who God is actually calling you to become.

If you’re navigating your own transition — whether in motherhood, business, or faith — I pray this message meets you right where you are.

In the meantime, let's reflect together!

What has God been using to soften you in this season? Reply back — I’d love to hear your story.

And if you’re celebrating or remembering someone this weekend: Happy Mother’s Day. You’re seen, you’re loved, and your JOYrney™ matters. 💛

We’re on the JOYrney™ together… ONE feel-good thing at a time.

Erica


The JOYrney To Purpose® Podcast
🎙️ New Episode: FREEDOM & REST: How I found my way to the “Soft Life”
(and how you can too!)

In case you're wondering what the "three pivotal moments" I'm referring to above (that challenged and almost broke me): These seasons included:

  1. Graduating college in a recession and questioning my worth
  2. Becoming a mom and losing my identity
  3. Feeling like a “failed entrepreneur” after letting go of a business I built

If you've been part of the #VibeTribe for a bit, you may have heard me reference these experiences, but in this week's podcast episode, I'm giving you a full-blown "Storytime" and sharing my testimony.

So grab a snack and your journal as I share a couple of reflective prompts to get your JOYrney™ juices flowing.

The episode premiers on YouTube at 5:00 PM EST (subscribe/turn on notifications),

or you can LISTEN NOW by clicking the link below!

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BTW: If you’re a nurse/working in healthcare (or know someone who is) and you’re seeing burnout firsthand, I’d love to explore how we can bring more JOY to the healthcare system. I’m conducting a personal survey to hear more about your experiences and how together we can better support you as you care for others!


Have a great week, Reader and remember –

We’re on the JOYrney™ together …ONE feel-good thing at a time!

Xx,

Erica


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